Seeing that Qi An'an was still a little confused, the two mothers laughed.
After pulling her to sit between the two of them, Gu Qiuhua said with some emotion, "It's not about your new reproductive technology, the country actually chose to release the news today, and now it's going crazy on the Internet. "
And 99 percent of the spread is estimated to be women.
As a woman, she can understand everyone's reaction.
The other half of Qi's mother also echoed, "Yeah, An'an, what you did this time seems to be less influential than before, but it is indeed of great significance to women. In fact, I gave birth to you and your brother. It was a normal delivery, but the pain was still unbearable, it’s the same as a normal delivery, let alone a cesarean section.”
This was easy to say, and she even forgot that Qi An’an was not born by herself.
But the meaning is almost there.
The two mothers were talking about this kind of topic with their daughter. The old man, Qi's father, and Qi Anyang didn't interrupt, and they had nothing to do on the first day of the new year. They just sat in their seats and listened to what they had to say. , Those who play with optical brains play with optical brains, and the home field is completely given to the women at home.
Gu Qiuhua is still saying, "When I gave birth to Jiayu, I met a woman who had a caesarean section. The appearance after the birth made me feel cold. It was obvious that the birth was over. Seeing her miserable appearance, I felt so sad. One click, and then I decided not to give birth.”
Of course, one son and one daughter are enough, even if there is no example of the mother, she may not have another child.
Speaking of this, I just want to say that it is really not easy for a woman to get pregnant and give birth.
As a result, now, because of their own daughters, too many women may not have to experience that kind of pain in the future. I have to say that this is an extremely happy thing, and it also makes them feel infinitely proud of their daughters as mothers!
Hearing this, Qi An'an couldn't help but realize that this was the case.
Seeing that the two mothers looked sad, she took out her optical computer and looked online.
Just looking at it, we can see that the two mothers are not exaggerating, and the Internet is indeed crazy. At this time in previous years, people would basically complain about the Spring Festival Gala, or about grabbing red envelopes during the Spring Festival Gala. Generally speaking, although it is the first day of the new year, but What everyone talks about is usually not very different.
But today, no matter where you click, everyone seems to be talking about new technologies.
According to the gender ratio of men and women in the whole country, although there are not as many women as men, this matter is related to the vital interests of women. One counts as one, and basically cannot bear the urge to speak, so in a short period of time, it can be said that the Internet has been Female netizens dominate the screen!
One of the netizens even posted a long blog post, the content of which made too many women in the workplace feel the same way, so this blog post was pushed to the top, which was also seen by Qi An'an.
The person who posted the blog post was a professional woman and an industry elite.
The content roughly said that when she first joined the job, she had great potential and was willing to work hard. She was promoted quickly and her career development was extremely smooth.
But later, because of her marriage and childbirth, she missed many opportunities. From pregnancy, to childbirth, to raising children, she wasted two to three years during this period. People inferior to her left her behind.
That kind of gap made her so uncomfortable that she didn't know how many times she cried.
No matter how hard you try, the missed time is missed.
She is still good, because she has a good foundation before. Although she has a big gap, she is definitely not bad compared with ordinary people, but she is still young but has already touched the career ceiling. For outsiders.
She is like this, so what about the same sex who are in a worse situation than her in reality?
You can guess it almost without thinking.
She used her actual situation as an example, which really aroused the resonance of too many people. The content of the following replies is as long as each other, and also as sad as each other, as if it is worse than the scene of the conference!
[Who says no? Everyone says that there is discrimination in the workplace and inequality between men and women. When I was in school, I was also aggrieved about it. After I joined the job, a colleague around me was pregnant and asked for leave. Most of her work was piled up for me. I Not only did I work overtime every day, but I still didn’t get much money. At that time, why didn’t I blame my colleagues? Even though I knew that she was not at fault, I still couldn’t control my emotions. ]
[I am similar to the one above, but I was also pregnant and took maternity leave. When I was on maternity leave, I felt so guilty to my colleagues around me. For this reason, I specially invited everyone to dinner before I left. I always feel inferior, I feel that I have caused trouble for everyone by asking for leave, and I will try my best to do more after returning to work. ]
[To put it bluntly, I myself was also irritable because my female colleague took maternity leave, and then I couldn't resist and I left and changed jobs. ]
[ 1. We women all think it is troublesome for women to take maternity leave. It is no wonder that women are discriminated against in the workplace. This is an unsolvable problem. Different positions have different perspectives. It's different! ]
[Yes, as long as the impact of having a child is resolved, I don't believe that I am inferior to a man! ]
[Although it costs money, I would rather work harder and earn more money to prepare in advance than to conceive and give birth in person and confinement. I don't want pregnancy to affect my career planning. ]
[Heh, this is a good thing for us women, but it is probably not a good thing for some men. I have seen some stinky speeches, saying that women will talk about it and push everything to men , I want to say, go fuck it! ]
[The boss is also a woman, if they have the ability, let them go to the boss and let the boss teach them how to behave! ]
[Big brother is really amazing, just because of this incident, I will be a fan of her for the rest of my life! ]
[…]
More than one person posted such a blog post, and most of them received extremely enthusiastic reactions and responses. Qi Anan actually couldn't stand it, but after she read some selectively, she couldn't help feeling a little bit embarrassed .
Because she hasn't experienced this stage herself, she doesn't feel that deeply.
But after reading all kinds of sad past stories posted by women on the Internet, I couldn't help being touched a lot.
It's so difficult for women. If you have the opportunity in the future, you should give women more benefits. At least let men and women achieve real equality, instead of just talking about equality. In fact, there are various hidden discriminations.
When Qi An'an was surfing the Internet, Qi's mother and Gu Qiuhua didn't stop.
The two women had so much in common that they couldn't finish talking.
But when it was almost nine o'clock, Qi's mother stopped the topic apologetically, and said to Gu Qiuhua, "An An's cousin's family is coming soon, I have to make preparations, I can't entertain you for the time being, let An An accompany you Let's talk for a while!"
Gu Qiuhua got up when he heard the words, "Why do you accompany me? If you have guests at home, you should entertain them first. I have to go back too. Zhang's family also has some distant relatives who are coming today. I should go home and get ready. .”
Although visiting relatives did not officially start until the second day of the Lunar New Year.
But in fact, many people also choose to come and go on the first day of the new year, especially this year when Qi An'an is at home. Some relatives want to meet Qi An'an in person and have a good relationship with her. This year, they are also very active this year. All kinds of greetings started before.
Gu Qiuhua also had to go back and deal with it.
She appeared at Qi's house early in the morning because she read the news on the Internet, and she really wanted to have a personal communication. Qi's mother is about the same age as her, and the two have always had common topics. Didn't they come here? !
Now that the family is busy, she should go back by herself.
Knowing that Gu Qiuhua was not being polite, Qi's mother didn't stop her. There were indeed a lot of things during the Chinese New Year, so she and Qi An'an sent Gu Qiuhua to the door together, and even Qi's father stood up and gave them away meaningfully. .
After watching Gu Qiuhua leave, they turned back again.
"You were not at home when your cousin's family came two years ago." Qi's mother said to her daughter as she walked back, "This year you are rarely at home, so I also have a good chat with your cousin. Our family often visits now. The only relatives are your cousin's family."
Qi Yue didn't say anything, she was no longer counted as Qi's family.
She does have a few brothers and sisters from her natal family, but the relationship is not worth mentioning.
Her mother was a second marriage back then, so she gave birth to her one. There were two older brothers and one older sister in front of her. They were brothers and sisters who were born to her stepmother. For the sake of her family, he consciously maintains a relationship with her.
But after something happened to the Qi family, they ran faster than anyone else, as if they didn't know her.
After leaving the imperial capital for more than ten years, the two sides have long since lost contact.
Logically speaking, this kinship relationship has long since ceased to exist, so if you don’t have any contact, don’t have any contact, and Mother Qi doesn’t care.
As a result, not long after the daughter's exclusive interview was broadcast last year, the few families got the news from unknown sources, and knew that Qi An'an was her daughter, and even came to her a few times, as if there was no such thing as something they hadn't contacted for more than ten years.
It's really ugly to want to make a relationship.
If the relationship is good, I won't talk about it, but it doesn't matter a long time ago. When I think of her at this time, what kind of dream is it!
Before Qi An'an knew about it, Qi's mother had already settled the matter.
As for what those brothers and sisters think of her, who cares!
Because neither her husband nor her side have any good relatives, so for Qi Song, this cousin, Qi's mother still values it, mainly because the couple have good character and know how to behave.
Father Qi finally spoke after hearing the words, "Yes, our family doesn't have any relatives to leave during the Chinese New Year, and we have a lot of time!" The
main reason is that I left the imperial capital for more than ten years, and originally had some distant relatives, but they came to the imperial capital after more than ten years , Many of them have lost contact. Relationships need to be managed. After more than ten years of no contact, there is no need to move around now.
She didn't stay at home during the Chinese New Year before, but now hearing what her parents said, Qi Anan couldn't help asking, "Then what are you doing during the Chinese New Year?"
As for the uncle's family, she has pretty good senses, so naturally she doesn't object to associating with them.
Just listening to the situation at home, why do you feel that the Chinese New Year is a bit deserted?
Qi's father and Qi's mother looked at each other, "then there is really nothing to do, eat a meal every day at meal time, watch TV and surf the Internet in spare time, last year there was a star network, and we will go to the star network to play during the Chinese New Year, it feels better than traveling It's interesting."
Qi An'an, "..."
Co-authoring the Chinese New Year, all of my family has become a house?
At the end of the year, every household will prepare a lot of New Year’s goods, one for eating for themselves, and the other is for entertaining relatives when they come to visit. Of course, her mother also prepares New Year’s goods, and the preparations are quite complete. Now it seems that they are all prepared for themselves.
The family of three returned to the living room while talking.
The old man also heard their conversation just now, and after his granddaughter sat down opposite him, he frowned slightly, "I am different from your parents, I have many old friends, and I will walk around during the New Year.
" I choose to walk around after other people's relatives have finished walking, but there are indeed walks.
Qi's mother smiled and said, "Yes, yes, Dad, you are much better than me and Brother Hai, let alone, I will go to the kitchen to prepare." "Then I will help too!"
Qi Hai has no machismo, I often help my wife as much as I can.
Seeing that Qi An'an also wanted to help in the past, the old man stretched out his hand to press down, "An'an, you don't have to go, your cousin's family doesn't have many people, and you won't get too many things, your parents are enough. "
Qi's father, who had not yet reached the kitchen, heard what the old man said, and raised his voice, "Yes, An An, you don't need it, just talk to your grandpa, I will help your mother, and it will be done soon. "
Well, Qi An'an and his family are really not polite, so they sat back down again.
The TV was on, the grandpa and grandson were talking in the living room, and the couple was preparing meals in the kitchen. Although there were not many people, it was very warm.
Not long after, Qi Song's family arrived.
They also came to pay New Year's greetings on the first day of the new year in previous years, but Qi An'an was not at home on this day in the past two years. This year it was rare to be at home. After seeing Qi An'an, but because of her change of status, the uncle's family became a little cautious?
Mr. Qi saw the meaning, and his face immediately became serious. Before the whole family sat down, he reprimanded his nephew, "What's the matter? An An is your niece, no matter what she does, your uncle The relationship between niece and niece will never change, why do you have this attitude, or do you think that An An will look down on you or something?" "No, no, I don't think so!" Qi Song thought in his heart after being reprimanded by his uncle
. Instead, he breathed a sigh of relief and quickly waved his hand.
To be honest, I was a little cautious before.
He is just an ordinary person, but the uncle's niece has suddenly become a national celebrity. Faced with such a person, even if she is only a junior, it is really frightening.
But the uncle's familiar attitude brought him back to his usual state.
In addition, Qi An'an's own attitude was the same as when he met occasionally before, so he gradually relaxed.
When Qi's parents and Qi's mother came out of the kitchen to strike up a conversation with them, the atmosphere heated up, and finally the restraint disappeared.
His wife Wang Guixiang is also in a similar state to him.
But that's also because the couple often come to Qi's house, and the slight change in mentality is easy to return in a familiar atmosphere, but Qi Jiajia is different, she seldom came here with her parents before this, He didn't maintain much relationship with Qi An'an and Qi Anyang's siblings.
After Qi An'an became famous all over the country, this was the first time she officially met Qi An'an.
So when the elders were talking, she secretly looked at Qi An'an from time to time.