* Ma'Ndlovu walks into the kitchen and finds me preparing breakfast *

Ma'Ndlovu: Awu makoti wavuka

Me: Yebo , sawbona ma . Unjani Ma'Ndlovu: Ngiyaphila , yaz nami ngingene kanje emendweni

*I stare at her blandly *

Ma'Ndlovu : khululeka makoti , kuzolunga . Nizofunda uku thanda yezwa

I nod and we start to set up the table , then Bab'Ndlovu and Nkosi and his siblings ( Sibusiso Ndlovu , 29 years and Mpendulo Ndlovu 27 years)

Breakfast is peaceful, I say nothing while Bab'Ndlovu and the brothers talk about how business is going and their plans .

* After breakfast *

As I was about to wash the dishes Nkosi walks into the kitchen

Nkosi : Sthandwa awuyeka lapho , bakhona o aunty , Go pack your bags we leaving in 30 minutes.

Me: okay [ and I silently walk off , at this point I am scared of Nkosi ]

I pack my bags and Nkosi's bags and we say our goodbyes to the family and we leave ..