Chapter 111 Seems Different
Song Jinglin has some aspects that Liu Qingqing is very satisfied with, that is, he has a lively eye.
Not to mention the old men of this time, even her father in the future, he only cares about the outside world and doesn't care about the family.
Every day when he comes home, he lies down, and no one can call him. In her mother's words, he won't get up to help even if the soy sauce bottle falls.
Song Jinglin has a lively eye. When she came back to cook dumplings, he knew to carry firewood.
When she cooked, he would immediately bring the plates and bowls.
After dinner, he didn't just wipe his mouth and push the table away, but was very proactive in washing the dishes.
This is also the reason why Liu Qingqing was willing to coax him to come. Just like this, he is away from home all year round, spends money at home, and works when he comes back. It's not easy to find a man who is strong in bed.
As for the relationship, it was just so-so. He was good-looking, she liked him, he was comfortable around her, and he didn't have any bad habits.
That was good.
After everything was packed, Song Jinglin took out the money in his pocket first: "This is the allowance for the past two months."
Because he was going to come back, he didn't waste money on remittances.
Liu Qingqing took the money and counted it, and handed back three big banknotes: "Keep some in your pocket, you have to prepare for it whether you spend it or not."
When you don't see him, it's okay to just talk about it, but now that he's back, you still have to take practical action.
As for the money that was sent back before, Liu Qingqing talked to him about her savings and expenses, so that he knew that he was good at managing the household.
In the days without TV and entertainment, the couple would go to bed after washing up.
In bed, it is necessary to understand each other and communicate with each other.
The familiar formula is a little strange.
Everything returned to calm, Song Jinglin leaned on her back and began to tell her what was in his heart: "Wife, you have suffered a lot in the past few years. I have been away for a whole year. I know you are upset."
Liu Qingqing? Uncomfortable? No.
"Spend the money when you need it, don't just save it. I earn enough money to spend, don't be frugal alone."
Liu Qingqing...
I don't~
"Don't worry about my family. If you have any problems, just come to me. Don't be angry with them."
Liu Qingqing, this sentence probably comes from the Maotou incident. She wrote about it in a proud and sad way, from Liu's father to herself, from being pushed to being suspected...
It's sad to smell it and tears to see it.
One said it, and the other agreed.
No matter what the man said, she would not refute it if it was beneficial to her.
Liu Qingqing gradually understood that this man had learned a lot from her letters, so that now, with one of her movements and one of her eyes, he might be able to think of how pitiful, helpless, sad and upset she was...
Gradually falling asleep with the magic voice of the person behind her, Liu Qingqing didn't know when he finished talking, but she slept soundly that night.
On the way to work, no one said words like "Congratulations on your prosperity".
The auspicious words from the neighbors who greeted her were "I wish you can meet the chairman this year."
Song Jinglin followed her out and rode Liu Qingqing's bicycle.
It was very cold, and he insisted that she sit in the back.
It was only a few steps away, and walking was more comfortable than riding a bicycle.
After shaking her head to refuse, Song Jinglin pushed the cart beside her and wanted to take her to the supply and marketing cooperative.
She didn't refuse, and glanced at the corners of his mouth that were trying hard to suppress. She guessed that this man was thinking about something like she couldn't bear to see him suffer, or wanted to stay with him for a while longer.
After last night's "sincere to sincere", I didn't expect that this person who always had a stern face would have such a temper.
After sending Liu Qingqing, Song Jinglin got on the cart and went to Taoshan Village.
As for the things, the money was sent, and the wife also sent the New Year gift.
It's good to have him here.
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Song's father saw his son coming back and was very happy: "When did you arrive? Are you tired? Are you hungry? I'll ask your mother to prepare something for you."
"Dad, don't worry. I ate this morning."
Song's mother looked at the bicycle in the yard: "Didn't your wife come with you?"
Song Jinglin: "She's at work."
Song's father nodded and smiled and said: "Good, it's good to go to work. If you have a job, you have to work hard. Your wife came two days ago and gave a piece of meat and a bottle of white wine. They are all good children."
Song's mother whispered: "What's good about her? I think she's just a fox. The spirit of the cricket has taken away the soul."
No matter how softly she whispered, Song Jinglin could not escape her ears: "Mom, if you say this, you will be caught by someone. You will be dragged out and beaten. You may be sent to the northwest farm."
Mother Song smiled awkwardly: "What? I didn't say anything. You heard it wrong, son."
Song Jinglin ignored her and turned to his father and said: "Dad, you have to be careful. Our family is originally a good class. Don't put the whole family in jail because of a few words."
Father Song glared at his wife fiercely. She just didn't learn her lesson. She just kept talking all day. It's better to sew her mouth shut.
Mother Song saw that the old man was staring at her, and she was angry and secretly cursed this old man for always saying that she was wrong.
Song Jinglin frowned and said nothing. He still had to take his wife away quickly. She should not stay here. It was close to the village, and she would have to worry about things.
When they went to the team, they would not come back. They would just earn a living all year round and nothing would happen.
Chapter 112 Family Bucket
Liu Qingqing didn't know that her carefree life of living alone was coming to an end.
She was still happily planning to appease the person properly in the past few days. After sending the person away, she could live her own corrupt life again.
Although eating alone was not a decent thing, there was no other way. She won two buckets of super value family buckets in the lottery...
This thing can't be taken out casually. It will take another 15 years before Grandpa Ken moves into the country.
But before Song Jinglin leaves, she can make him a home-cooked fried chicken nuggets.
Forget about the burgers.
If she imitates it a little bit, she will be labeled as an enemy spy.
Liu Qingqing didn't like this kind of fast food before. Fried chicken, burgers and the like were not as attractive to her as spicy hot pot.
She wasn't very interested in the fat house happy water either.
But after not seeing him for a long time, she still missed him.
She glanced at the things on the dining table again, then raised her arm to check the time.
Song Jinglin should stay in Taoshan Village for lunch at noon, so she can enjoy it alone.
Hey, man, you delayed my meal.
Song's mother, who was sent to the kitchen by the old man to cook, felt unhappy.
Other old ladies don't have to go to the stove at this age.
She is lucky, but none of her two daughters-in-law can do it.
At this age, she still has to clean up in the kitchen every day.
Before the family split, I could still count on my eldest daughter-in-law to do the work.
Since my eldest daughter-in-law became a "whining monster", I can't really count on her anymore. She only whines when she comes, except at mealtime.
It's so unlucky.
I was chased away by the old man after dinner yesterday, and he won't let me come today.
The old daughter-in-law is even worse. She has never eaten a ready-made meal.
She used to be able to do a little bit, but now she doesn't show up at all.
Even so, she can't say a bad word.
Otherwise, everyone in the village will say that she doesn't know what's good for her.
Song Jinglin talked with his father for a while, and then turned back to the Liu family.
She went home empty-handed because the money and gifts had been given.
As for the mother-in-law, his wife also told him and sent him a New Year gift.
But they still have to treat them equally.
His parents raised him when he was young, so he should take care of them when he grows old.
His wife didn't grow up by eating air, and she was also raised by others for 19 years.
Which family didn't negotiate conditions before marriage?
It's just that his mother-in-law was a little impatient.
Except that he looked a little bit noisy before marriage, he looked at his wife and mother-in-law later, and they were all pretty good.
It can be seen that the rumors in the village are not true, even his mother looks at people with prejudice.
Old Lady Liu ignored her son-in-law's persuasion and sent him to the door.
She smiled and waved to see Song Jinglin off, and then went into the house to hide the 100 yuan in her pocket.
In her heart, she guessed that the old lady must not have told her that she had given her money, otherwise her son-in-law would not have given her another share.
Thinking of kissing the money to show her appreciation, she suddenly remembered what her daughter said about under the toes, under the insoles...
She quickly unlocked the cabinet and pulled out a bundle from the pile of bundles inside.
Unlocking the four corners, she found a pair of rolled-up socks.
She took out a pair of patches from the middle, unrolled the socks, and rolled the 100 yuan into them.
After tidying up, she put them back in place.
Old Mrs. Liu stared at the locked cabinet and laughed. It really affected her good mood that she could not share such a good thing with others.
Liu Qingqing didn't know that Song Jinglin still had money in his hand.
She even gave him pocket money...
And he accepted it with a smile...
Actually, she didn't object to giving the old lady some money.
She was so old and had never eaten anything good in her life. Besides, she just coveted money, but she didn't spend it when she was really given it.
In the past two years, she had never spent the money given to Liu's mother.
When Liu Qingqing first came, she didn't know what was going on at first, and she didn't give her anything except food and drink, for fear of making her too generous.
After such a long time of contact, it was clear that Old Lady Liu was different from most parents.
Many families raise daughters with the intention of calculating the return, including how many work points they earn before marriage and how much dowry they get after marriage. They brainwash the girls from a young age, letting them know that their parents belong to their natal family and that they have to help their natal family solve problems after marriage.
Most girls also accept this brainwashing and this setting. Considering that they need the support of their natal brothers to gain a foothold in their husband's family, they will also move things back according to their natal family's requirements after marriage.
Old Lady Liu never does this, despite her bad reputation.
In the hearts of Liu Honghua's husband's family in Xiaotun Village, Old Lady Liu is a very good relative.
If a lady is well-educated, her natal family will not pick on her.
But she never helps any of her children, nor does she ask her daughter to support her son.
She will also accept things given to her by her natal family, but she will only receive them for herself.
Even if she doesn't give it to him, she will just curse at him but won't force him to give it to her.
Chapter 113 Waiting for You to Get Old
The news of Song Jinglin's return spread throughout the village in the morning.
But Song Jingchun, who was separated by a courtyard gate, never showed up.
Seeing his father's unhappy expression, Song Jinglin went to the next door to call his elder brother to come for lunch.
As the youngest, he should take the initiative, but he felt that Song Jingchun's deaf-mute attitude was worth thinking about.
When the eldest brother Song saw the person at the door, he stood up and smiled: "Jinglin is back."
Song Jinglin's eyebrows moved slightly, and he also smiled and said: "Brother is at home, I thought he went out, come over for dinner later."
The eldest brother Song shook his head: "I won't go, Dad hates your eldest sister-in-law for always wiping tears, alas, your eldest sister-in-law is just bitter in her heart..."
Tian Cuixiang didn't come out, and there was no movement. I don't know if she was not at home or didn't want to show up.
Song Jinglin didn't respond to this. He grabbed a handful of fruit candies and put them in his pocket when he left home. He took them out and shared them with his two nieces.
Song Jingchun stretched out his hand and made a gesture of resistance: "Why give them to them? Two little girls, this thing is wasted."
Song Jinglin frowned: "Brother, what are you talking about."
Song Lao Da quickly changed his tone: "It's nothing, you two thank your second uncle, take it and eat it."
The two girls shouted in unison: "Thank you, second uncle."
Song Jinglin's frown didn't relax until he left Song Lao Da's yard.
His eldest brother was obviously dissatisfied with him, or dissatisfied with his wife.
Just now when Song Jingchun didn't let the two children take the candy, the two nieces didn't look scared, which proved that they didn't suffer much at home. In previous years, when he gave food to the children, Song Jingchun didn't stop him from giving it to the girls, which showed that he didn't dislike his daughters.
That was for him to hear.
Since she said she wouldn't come, there was no need for him to force it.
I went back to the main hall and talked to Song's father about what they said.
Song's father sighed. The eldest was normal at first, but her mind became more and more unclear because of her daughter-in-law's trouble.
Song Jinglin moved the bench forward: "Dad, I'm not defending my wife. That matter can't be blamed on Qingqing anyway. Besides, my father-in-law saved the child's life. Even if he lost money, how much money can buy back a life? I dare say that anyone who takes 200 yuan to buy someone else's life will be slapped. Let's talk about this time. It's obviously not related to my wife. Why do they want to put Qingqing on the head? Isn't it because she married me and is the daughter-in-law of our Song family? They think it's easy to control."
Song's father opened his mouth: "In fact, the eldest son is not that kind of bad-hearted child..."
"Dad, my eldest brother is already 40 years old, but he is still a child?"
Song's father lowered his head: "Brothers, we are connected by bones, second brother, your eldest brother is just not comfortable."
Song Jinglin nodded: "Yes, he is not comfortable, and I am not comfortable either. I'd better have less contact in the future. I'm worried that my wife will be bullied by my eldest brother and his wife at home."
Song's mother had been listening to the corner for a long time. At this point, she couldn't help but say: "Second brother, you have no conscience. For a woman, you have alienated your eldest brother, his parents, and how can your wife not be? Oh..." There was a string of words at the end, but Song's father pinched his leg and interrupted it.
Song Jinglin rubbed his temples. He could still communicate with his father, but forget about his mother.
"Dad, filial piety is the responsibility of the son in the future. After all, my mother doesn't think my daughter-in-law is a relative. What my mother said makes sense. If my daughter-in-law doesn't want me in the future, there's no need to care about my parents. My daughter-in-law won't come home in the future."
Song Jinglin followed his mother's wishes and took his daughter-in-law away. When he returned, he told his daughter-in-law that she didn't need to come here anymore.
Mother Song was even angrier, but the old man pinched her hand so hard that it hurt.
Father Song wanted to say a few words to ease the tension, but Song Jinglin smiled and left a few words wishing the old couple good health: "Dad, I won't eat. I think my mother is not in a good mood today. I'll come before I leave."
Seeing his son getting up to leave, Father Song nodded: "Okay, it's rare for you two to see each other. Go slowly on the way back and don't worry about home."
After watching his second son leave the yard, Father Song's suppressed emotions burst out: "Do you have any problems with your brain? Do you want to live by the face of the eldest son's wife when you are old? It's been more than ten years, and you can't see what kind of human nature she is? Don't you know whether the eldest son and his wife can be relied on? Day by day, you can't figure out some things. I wonder who you can rely on when you are old and paralyzed in bed."
In fact, he didn't say anything, just an old woman.
Can the real support for old age be from the son? It must be the daughter-in-law.
Song's mother curled her lips. She dared not rely on him. If she couldn't move, she would find a rope to hang around her neck.
Song Jinglin was calm. He might have had the same expectations for his parents ten years ago.
In fact, after two or three years of joining the army, he no longer had such unrealistic ideas.
Just like in his father's mouth, he would always be the second son, not the eldest son.
Chapter 114 Self-help
Liu Qingqing still didn't eat the junk food.
He arrived at the door of his house happily, the door was open, and the chimney was still smoking...
His face fell, and his wish to eat alone was not fulfilled.
Entering the house, Song Jinglin was waving a big spoon to cook, shredded pork and mustard greens.
"Why didn't you come back after eating in the village?" Liu Qingqing went into the kitchen, washed her hands, and took out a small basin to serve him the food.
He opened another steaming pot, in which there were pork ribs and dried potatoes stewed, with steamed buns on top.
Song Jinglin pursed his lips, and decided to finish eating those bad things first. I don't know how sad his wife would be if she heard it, and it would affect her appetite.
He changed the subject and said, "I don't know how to make dough, so I bought a few steamed buns from the hotel."
Liu Qingqing nodded. She had steamed buns and dumplings in her room, but she didn't leave them outside because she wanted to eat them hot.
It's not good to take them out now, so she will steam another pot in the evening.
The two of them didn't have any rules of not talking while eating or sleeping. During the meal, Liu Qingqing casually asked about the health of the old couple.
"Very good, by the way, I gave my mother-in-law a hundred yuan today. Since it's the retirement money, don't give less to both sides." Song Jinglin glanced at Liu Qingqing nervously. He didn't inform her in advance about this matter, mainly to make his wife happy, but on the way back, he thought about it and still felt that it was not appropriate. He regretted that he should have asked in advance.
Liu Qingqing was stunned, but didn't say much. What did she mean by that? Did she give too much?
Forget it.
Song Jinglin observed and found that his wife was neither happy nor angry. He wondered in his heart that he had not considered this matter carefully and was really inexperienced.
"You still have money in your pocket." Liu Qingqing said casually.
Song Jinglin felt a little sweat on his back, wondering if it was because of the heat from cooking: "A little bit, I saved it in advance, and there is also money for the ticket."
Liu Qingqing nodded, put away the dishes and went to the kitchen.
Song Jinglin followed with a small basin in his hand: "Wife, I'll keep 150 yuan, 100 for my mother-in-law, plus the 80 you gave me."
Liu Qingqing smiled: "It's okay, leave a little more, don't worry about yourself when you go out."
Song Jinglin's tense face relaxed, showing a row of white teeth: "I'll clean up, wife, you take a rest."
Liu Qingqing was helpless. Last time she saw him, she thought he was aloof, but this time she realized he was pretending.
This person loves to laugh, but he always tries to control it, and rarely has extra facial expressions in front of others.
"You've been busy all morning, are you tired? Let me do it." The caring words came out casually.
Looking at his wife, she knew she felt sorry for him: "Not tired, this is not too much trouble."
"I made you a cup of honey water, think about drinking it later, it's good for your health." Liu Qingqing said softly as she took the teacup to the cupboard.
Song Jinglin was touched. It was really different to have a wife. He didn't even bring a cup of sugar water when he returned to the village.
"Wife, you are so nice."
Liu Qingqing pursed her lips. She hadn't done anything to win over this man, but he had already won over himself.
Only then did she understand why the "daily account diary" she wrote could make this man think of so many things.
Song Jinglin hesitated for a while and felt that he still had to explain something.
He simply picked something that would not make people angry and said the matter.
Then he hurriedly comforted his wife: "You don't have to go to my house when you return to the village in the future. I have already told them."
Liu Qingqing blinked her eyes. In this case, she also saved those superficial politeness.
As for the sadness and hurt that Song Jinglin said, there was not a trace of it.
If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, then don't get along.
All disputes and contradictions end with less contact, less meeting, and less contact.
She made a slightly lost expression, nodded, and didn't say anything wrong about the Song family.
Although people are on her side now, if she follows the topic and points fingers - your brother is not good, your sister-in-law is not good, your mother is not good.
The balance in the other party's heart will instantly tilt to that side.
As a young woman who is familiar with family and emotional columns in modern society, she must have the right attitude at this time.
Chapter 115: Formation
Last year, Song Jinglin was still pretending, and the two of them were not very familiar with each other.
This time, he changed significantly. He always wanted to stick with her and pick her up and drop her off at get off work.
Liu Qingqing adapted well. Isn't this the kind of couple in the future?
She had eaten pork and seen pigs running, but she had never been bullied by a pig.
However, the couple held hands, and they walked one in front and one behind.
There was no way. This was the trend now. When you go out, you can't pull and tug, even if you are a couple.
Watching Song Jinglin change his position from her left to her right.
After they walked forward for a while, she realized that he was helping her block the whistling northwest wind.
She glanced at this thoughtful man and smiled, not bad.
Seeing the gate from a distance, Song Jinglin watched her enter the supply and marketing cooperative before he turned around and left.
Slogans were shouted everywhere during the New Year, and she put her newly bought coat into the cupboard before putting it on.
The internal circulation was too serious. Not only did all the employees of the supply and marketing cooperative wear old clothes, but other units were also the same. Some people even patched their clothes with a lot of patches, and it seemed that the more patches, the more glorious it was.
Liu Qingqing followed everyone and rolled up honestly, pulling out last year's old coat. The patches were all ready, which was more in line with their position than those brand new patches.
At this time, if you are not "poor" enough, and you are unique and different from the crowd, someone will use this as an excuse to criticize you.
No matter whether you are really poor or pretending to be poor, everyone strives to be in the same formation.
As usual, when there are not many people in front, Liu Qingqing went to Yu Cailian's group to listen to gossip.
It is estimated that her work will last until the first month of the year, and I don't know what Director Li and Director Ge are talking about.
After this period, I will send a New Year gift to "greet".
As for now, it is not good to send it too early, everyone is watching.
Yu Cailian was saying with a little anger: "You have never seen such a mother-in-law. You should be careful when looking for a husband in the future."
Liu Qingqing felt that she had missed the first bite of the melon, and interrupted and asked: "What are you talking about?"
Xu Hui saw her coming, pulled a stool to her side and patted it: "Come and sit here, I will tell you."
Yu Cailian felt that her gossip was obviously taken away by someone else.
She rolled her eyes at Xu Hui: "I will tell you."
Liu Qingqing didn't care who was talking, just don't listen to half of the words.
Yu Cailian was talking about Xu Libo, who also worked in the supply and marketing cooperative before. Liu Qingqing didn't know this person very well. She only vaguely remembered that she was a girl with a round face and big eyes, who was quite shy and loved to laugh. ,
When she first came to the supply and marketing cooperative to work as a cashier, Xu Libo gave her job to her husband's eldest sister-in-law because of her bad looks.
However, Yu Cailian and the other two were quite familiar with her, and they could hear about Xu Libo's recent situation from them from time to time.
It was said that she was pregnant with a boy and a girl.
It was a happy event that the neighbors envied, but Xu Libo's life in the Geng family was not very good.
After marriage, she lived with her mother-in-law and father-in-law. According to Yu Cailian, when she got pregnant, her mother-in-law asked her to chop food for the chickens, wash clothes for the whole family, cook, chop wood and wash dishes after work. Even the work that she didn't have to do on weekdays was assigned to her.
The food was not very good, until the tormented fetus seemed unstable.
Her mother-in-law scolded her for being useless and unable to take care of a child, and then proposed that the eldest daughter take over the job while she stayed at home to take good care of the child.
I think this is what the Geng family wants. ,
When the job was taken over by the eldest sister-in-law, Xu Libo would no longer be tortured.
Yu Cailian glanced at the woman sitting behind the counter across from her, who was looking this way.
That was Xu Libo's eldest sister-in-law Geng Cuiyun.
Yu Cailian was not afraid of the other party at all. She glanced at her and turned to repeat the topic just now to Liu Qingqing: "I passed by Jining Lane yesterday and wanted to take a look at Libo's two babies. As a result, I heard the voice of the old woman Geng scolding outside the gate. When I went in, I found out that it was Geng Baojin who saw that Libo was too busy with the two children and helped to change the diapers. But the old woman grabbed Libo and scolded her."
Geng Baojin is Xu Libo's lover.
Yu Cailian was still angry when she talked about it again. Not only did the old woman not help, but she also refused to let her son stretch out his hand. She also said something like why do the old men change diapers, and whether it is unlucky to touch these things with their hands.
One of the two little ones cried, and the second one also cried. Xu Libo didn't care about anything else, so he called Geng Baojin for help.
Being scolded by old woman Geng, Geng Baojin didn't dare to help.
Sun Yingxia shook her head: "Libo should let her family support her, but she is too soft and was controlled."
"According to what you said, if her family was useful, the job would not have fallen to Geng Cuiyun." Liu Qingqing reminded.
"That's right, how can you let your eldest sister-in-law who married a long time ago take over the job? Isn't this bullying?"
Chapter 116 The marriage-phobic tribe
Liu Qingqing listened to the people condemning the evil mother-in-law and couldn't help but interject: "Don't you think Geng Baojin is also responsible?"
Just from the name, Bao and Jin. You can imagine how much this family loves their son.
Yu Cailian said hesitantly: "Geng Baojin is okay, I heard from Libo that he also wants to help at home, but his mother-in-law is wicked. She said she had to go to work the next day, so she sent him to sleep in the old couple's room at night."
Liu Qingqing secretly thought that he was naive, and it would be better if he could hide away: "If he was really okay, he shouldn't let his mother bully his wife and children, and the fuse was because he reached out to change the diaper, and the result was that his mother scolded his wife. According to you, he just gave up and left, and even used the excuse of Afraid that I will scold people again. Don't you think that what he did was to deliberately get rid of the job of taking care of the children? "
"He also went to the old couple's room. Haha, I'm afraid he himself was tired of the noise and hid away. If he really wanted to, he could just keep his mouth shut. If he had the time to talk nonsense, he could also lend a hand. "
The three looked at each other. They really didn't think so. It was the old lady who had always bullied others. Xu Libo, the man, had never beaten or scolded her. So in their hearts, this person was okay, but too filial.
Liu Qingqing felt that their thoughts needed to be cured. Can such a person be called filial?
"If you really want to be filial, you should balance the relationship between your parents and your wife and children, persuade both sides to reconcile and resolve conflicts, instead of provoking conflicts, and enjoy your own leisure..."
Listening to Liu Qingqing's brainwashing indoctrination of new "knowledge", Xu Hui asked confusedly: "Then according to what you said, if we were Xu Libo, what would we do at this time."
She was about to get married.
When she heard about this, she panicked.
"If it were me, I would go to the Women's Federation and the street to get my job back. If no one is taking care of the child, I would send him to a nursery. If they don't give me a job, I'll make trouble. Those who are barefoot are not afraid of those who wear shoes. If they dare to make a move, I'll go to the police station to report it. If the police station doesn't care, I'll search their houses and take their property back at night when they are asleep. Generally, the police station will appease them by saying it's a family matter. Since their hitting is a family matter, then my beating them is also a family matter."
Of course, the premise is that I have to be so stupid to fall into such a pit of fire.
She didn't give in in her last life, and she doesn't want to give in in this life.
With her strength, she has to break their arms and legs one by one.
At this time, it is advocated that women can hold up half the sky, which means the initial gender equality. The role of the Women's Federation is greater than a few years later. It is a real management, not a muddle.
Now is also a period of promoting revolution and production. In order to allow employees to work well, each unit has a nursery that accepts children from two months to three and a half years old.
Children over three years old can be sent to the Red Education Class.
Families with two working people don't have to worry about who will stay at home to take care of the children these days.
Liu Qingqing thought about Geng Baojin's style: "As for men, they should be allowed to do the work if there is work. The child is not fatherless. Of course, if the father dies, it will be another matter. Besides, if he doesn't learn how to change diapers now, how will he change them for his parents in the future? If he doesn't learn how to change diapers in the future, his parents will get diaper rash, which will be a pain."
This is a true story. There are many elderly people paralyzed in bed in Wuning.
However, due to the quality of life, most of them died around fifty, and they may not even be paralyzed in bed.
After the reform and opening up, every one of them will suffer from cerebral infarction or myocardial infarction when they are old, unless they are suffering from acute diseases. After the improvement of medical standards, some of them will lie down for more than ten years.
I don't know if it is due to the climate or revengeful eating and drinking after the conditions have improved.
Speaking of this topic, Liu Qingqing had almost finished her morning work and went to pour hot water with a teacup.
Her throat was dry from talking.
Patting her butt, Liu Qingqing wandered to the purchasing department with satisfaction.
There were three unmarried or engaged girls left, looking at each other.
This made her a little afraid of marriage.
However, many problems that I had never thought about before suddenly appeared in front of me one by one, and I always had a feeling of sudden enlightenment.
Chapter 117 Chili Sauce
After the meal, the couple digested their food and chatted side by side on the bed.
Chatting is the best way to deepen the understanding between two people.
When Song Jinglin thought that he could take the person to his side right away, his reluctance to leave was relieved.
Originally, it was not 100% certain, and he didn't want to mention it, but he was really happy in his heart, and he couldn't help but burst out: "Wife, when I return to the team, I will almost be promoted to the battalion level. When I settle down, I will send you a telegram, and you can go."
Liu Qingqing...
So suddenly? But she didn't want to.
But if it was so real that she said it directly, it would be too heartbreaking. Listening to the tone, even if she couldn't see it, she knew that his mouth must be cracked to the roots of his ears. She couldn't extinguish his enthusiasm with a basin of cold water.
"If you can arrange it, then arrange it. If it's not easy, don't force it. Let's be stable and don't do anything out of the ordinary. I'm fine here. I'm busy working every day and can save more money. It's expensive to raise a child in the future..." Liu Qingqing said softly with a slightly hoarse voice.
When Song Jinglin heard it, his heart was like the spring in Lao Ya Mountain, gushing out sweet water.
His wife was sincerely considering their small family. Since she said raising a child, he had to work harder.
"It's not forced. Believe me, we won't have to be separated from each other like this soon."
Liu Qingqing: Why can't you grasp the point? The point is money, money.
"Yeah, just don't get tired, but I won't have anything to do there."
Song Jinglin comforted her, "Although it's a little far, it's also a factory built by my family. If you can't stay at home, you can go and have a look."
Liu Qingqing...
There's no way to talk about this topic.
She nodded and agreed, let's talk about it later.
She couldn't splash cold water, but she could find an excuse to delay it.
Song Jinglin had to go home and inform before returning to the team.
As for her, Song Jinglin said that she didn't need to care about the affairs of the old Song family anymore, and he could go back alone.
Liu Qingqing looked up at the other party with her sparkling almond eyes and said, "I'll listen to you."
Full of trust.
Song Jinglin was stunned by this look and this voice, and he was more motivated to get on the bike.
Liu Qingqing shouted, "Slow down!" Then she clapped her hands and went into the office.
She originally had a win-win mentality for this marriage.
From observation at the beginning, to acceptance later, to satisfaction now.
What love at first sight, falling in love at first sight, these are all lust.
She doesn't have this kind of emotion. If she falls in love with someone because they are good-looking, then she will become a crazy illegitimate fan, falling in love with everyone she sees, and dying?
Now both parties have a good impression of each other, which is a good foundation.
As for love, it is a two-way running that requires joint efforts and joint management.
If the other party doesn't run in the future, then she must be sober and rational, and live a good life.
Of course, this marriage may not be divorced, but it doesn't matter, just live separately.
She has saved a lot of money. With money and beauty, and a house, she will have a wonderful life in the future.
Women must not treat love as capital, or love will disappear.
But you can treat money as capital, as long as you don't invest blindly and get fooled. Love will disappear, but money won't.
But now the other party is not only running, but also stretching the little motor to the maximum.
Seeing that the other party's attitude is very good, she has to jog forward.
Turned to the grocery store and bought a piece of meat.
Since they were not leaving immediately, Liu Qingqing left early at noon and came back to prepare some food for Song Jinglin.
There are not many things that are easy to store, so she plans to make some dried meat and chili meat sauce.
On the day of departure, she would boil some eggs and bake some pancakes.
The meat jerky had to be marinated for half a day. She cut the meat into thick slices, mixed the seasonings and put them aside for later use.
She had baked the meat jerky in the oven before, but she didn't have one this time, so she could only bake it slowly in a large pot over a low fire. Even if it flipped, it didn't matter. It was all meat and it wouldn't taste bad.
She cut the chili for the chili meat sauce directly in the air.
It was too irritating to cut it manually.
As for frying, she still had to fry it outside, and she couldn't wait until the evening to finish the food, otherwise the house would be clean and smellless.
She made a big pot of meat sauce, and except for taking a can for Song Jinglin, she kept the rest for herself.
The chili was just ordinary chili, and she couldn't eat the devilishly spicy one, because it was too hot.
Old Lady Lu, who was wandering outside the gate, smelled the familiar smell of chili peppers again. She turned around and went into the yard, closing the gate.
She hoped to block the smell.
Old Lady Lu cursed in her heart: This woman is so spicy, she only knows chili peppers every day.
Her grandson now cries and covers his buttocks when he mentions chili peppers...
Chapter 118 Emotional Value
How was Song Jinglin's trip to Taoshan Village?
Liu Qingqing didn't ask at all. No matter whether they were brothers in business or mother and son, she didn't need to get involved.
Seeing the bags and cans of food that his wife had put out, Song Jinglin's originally depressed heart was greatly comforted.
From these things, it can be clearly seen that his wife loves him more than last year.
Song Jinglin was immersed in the pampering given by his wife and couldn't extricate himself.
"No need to bring these for me, keep them for yourself."
Liu Qingqing took out a ticket and handed it to him: "I'll make it for you, just take it. Here, I bought it with the help of my beautiful lover, so you can suffer less if you take the berth."
Song Jinglin: (~)
My wife is really worried about him.
"Wife~"
She didn't know what the look in her eyes was like, but she saw the affectionate eyes.
Liu Qingqing held back her laughter. When she was so moved, she laughed by herself, which would embarrass her.
That night, Song Jinglin buried his head in her neck, smelling the familiar scent of soap and vanishing cream, and the reluctance in his heart became stronger and stronger.
I really want to take my wife to my side immediately and never experience this kind of separation again.
...
This was the first time for Liu Qingqing to see someone off at the station.
Their relationship was on the rise.
No matter what, she couldn't let him go alone.
She watched him get on the train, and saw from the window that he didn't look for a seat after entering the carriage, but stood straight by the window, looking at her without blinking.
Liu Qingqing, who didn't feel anything at first, suddenly felt a little sour in her nose.
She waved her hand, and the two of them just stared at each other through the glass until the train started.
Wuning was originally a small station, and the normal stop time was only two or three minutes. After a while, the shadow of the train disappeared from sight.
Liu Qingqing shook her head and threw away the sadness of leaving.
Although she didn't love him that much, the emotional value she gave him was sufficient and full.
It was something he couldn't get from other people or things.
Song Jinglin got a relaxed, comfortable and pleasant emotional satisfaction in this period of getting along.
It has exceeded the original psychological expectations.
The relationship between the two sides is that you warm me and I warm you, and the feelings gradually increase.
In the past few days, many colleagues in the supply and marketing cooperative saw Song Jinglin on the way to and from get off work.
Including Director Li and his eldest nephew.
His eyes were bright as if he saw fat meat.
But the atmosphere during the New Year was really not suitable for giving gifts. When the New Year gradually faded away, the involution of dressing slowly ended.
Liu Qingqing took advantage of the fact that no one was around to give Director Li a box of tea: "I know you like this, so my wife brought it back specially."
Director Li smiled so hard that his mouth couldn't close.
People who don't like to drink tea really don't understand him.
After a few simple greetings, Liu Qingqing wandered to the purchasing department.
She still had to send out the cigarettes...
The first month of the lunar year was over, and Liu Qingqing received the news that her second sister-in-law Zhang Dani had given birth to a daughter.
It was Liu Dongyuan who came all the way to inform her.
He was frozen and blushed, and left after saying a few words.
Liu Qingqing shouted at her from behind, but she didn't stop him. In her memory, she didn't talk much with this second brother, and their relationship was just average after she came.
Even so, she still had to go.
She took a day off and returned to the village.
As for the gift money, there was none. In the village, the most they would give to a woman who was in confinement was a few eggs.
She followed the crowd and brought a dozen eggs.
Old Lady Liu was teaching Liu Dongyuan how to change the baby's diaper. When she saw Liu Qingqing coming back, her eyes sparkled.
"Old lady, you haven't been back for a while. I miss you so much that I can't sleep."
Liu Qingqing looked at the child. She couldn't tell who the child looked like. The skin was not very smooth, but it was not wrinkled.
"Is the child easy to take care of?"
Old Lady Liu patted the baby's buttocks, and when the baby stopped sobbing, she gave the baby to her second son.
Then he pulled Liu Qingqing out: "It's not easy to take care of her either. She's far from my old lady."
Liu Qingqing...
Leaving the egg behind, the mother and daughter returned to Liu's mother's room.
They didn't even sit still.
Liu Lili, who heard the noise, rushed in like a cannon: "Aunt, you finally came to see Lili."
Although she knew that her aunt was here to see her second uncle's sister, it didn't matter. As long as she was quick, no one could take her away.
Oh, that's not right.
As long as she was obedient and well-behaved, her aunt would definitely like her the most.
Who told that sister not to talk?
Old lady Liu stared at her eldest granddaughter who rushed in.
She used to be quite lovable, but now she only cares for her when the old lady hasn't come back. She is much worse than before.
Liu Lili felt the gaze and quickly changed the subject: "Grandma, you must be tired, let Lili give you a massage. My mother said that you also took care of me in this way. You are so kind to me."
Grandma Liu nodded with satisfaction. This time she was quite sensible.
Liu Qingqing took out a handful of meat and handed it to her with a smile: "Lili is really good at talking."
Although Liu Lili regretted that it was not candy, the meat was also very good.
She took it with a smile and quickly put it in her pocket. This pocket was a large size pocket that she had begged her mother for several days to sew.
Her mother thought it was a waste of fabric and was unwilling to sew it for her.
I really don't understand it at all. This is called making preparations in advance, and the preparations are not comprehensive.
How can I accept the love my sister-in-law has for her?
Chapter 119 The Punished
Liu Lili was pinched by this one and then by that one.
It was rain and dew, no one should be left out.
But when she was going to continue to be aggressive and use all the new words she had learned recently.
She was carried away by her mother.
Ping Xianghong greeted her warmly: "Sister, go to that room for lunch, and your sister-in-law will make you sauerkraut blood sausage."
Liu Qingqing waved her hand: "No need, sister-in-law, I will leave in a while."
"Why are you leaving? I have already made it. The blood sausage was sent by my mother's family the other day, and it is fresh. Listen to your sister-in-law, and come back after you finish eating." After leaving a word, he turned around and carried Liu Lili away, not allowing Liu Qingqing to push him away again.
"Mom, I want to talk to my aunt..."
"What are you talking about? Your aunt finally came back and chatted with your grandma." After leaving the yard, she lowered her voice and scolded: "Liu Lili, I tell you, you are such a big girl, you can't always beg for food. If you develop bad habits, your character will be bad when you grow up."
Liu Lili pouted. She is still young.
Besides, she only said good things to her aunt, and others didn't want to listen.
Besides, it was not her who asked for it. No matter what the aunt gave, she would say good things to the aunt.
She is not the kind of person who will treat her according to the situation.
Ping Xianghong put the girl next to the stove and commanded: "Pull the bellows for me."
Liu Lili (′-﹏-';)
"Mother, I think you've calmed down a lot." Liu Qingqing pointed to Liu Laoer's room. Her mother looked good, obviously not too tired.
"Maybe she became depressed after she was born and she looked like a daughter." Old Lady Liu pouted.
If she were to say, Zhang Dani had a mud in her head.
When she was pregnant, she didn't know who her mother asked to look at her belly, and she said it was a son, which made her very proud.
She obviously didn't care about grandsons or not.
But these idiots had to think that the Liu family was dying because they lacked grandsons.
It was as if the grandson would bring honor to the family once he was born.
The real glory was his Liu family, his son, what did it have to do with Li Guihua?
But when Zhang Dani gave birth, she found out that the child was a daughter of a concubine, and she insisted that it was not hers.
She was the only one who gave birth to a child in the village during those days. If it was not hers, then it could have popped out from the cracks in the rocks?
She cried and howled, asking her second son to call the village chief and her mother to find a deity.
If her eldest son had not warned her, and the neighbors had heard it, Zhang Dani and her mother would have been dragged out and criticized.
That would not have stopped.
In the words of her daughter of a concubine, she was a fool.
Zhang Dani's mother saw that the baby was a girl, and after being told by Liu Laoda, she ran away.
At first, I thought my daughter could give birth to the first male child for the Liu family.
Then the whole family should treat her with respect and support?
When the Zhang family needs something, can the Liu family still prevent their children from taking it?
Of course not, for example, her grandson is the apple of the eye of the whole family.
The daughter must stand up and have the right to speak in the family.
This daughter is not smart, and she didn't teach her well even after I taught her step by step.
The Liu family has a daughter named Liu Qingqing, but they still don't flatter her.
She is so good that she was separated from the family.
It's useless.
While driving her back to her own village, Zhang Dani's mother scolded this useless girl.
Zhang Erni was brainwashed by her parents since she was a child. She has been able to "endure hardships and hard work" and serve the whole family since she was a child.
After getting married, she lived up to the education of the Zhang family and was always thinking about supporting her parents.
However, she was not able to get pregnant.
Her mother-in-law was also a powerful person, and she controlled everything inside and outside the house.
She had no access to the remaining compensation from the Liu family that her parents were thinking about.
Moreover, her idea of favoring boys over girls was deeply rooted, and she dared not lift her back without a son.
This was also the reason why she lived like a big punching bag every day when she first married into the Liu family, and no one bullied or said anything.
When the Zhang family saw that she was pregnant, they found a capable person to check if it was a son.
Zhang Erni used to be an invisible person who worked hard, but she became the boss after a few months of happiness. Before she could be happy for a few months, she became a big complainer with a droopy head.
Old Mrs. Liu was unwilling to see her gloomy face when she took care of her during the confinement period. She cried and sighed every day.
I told her in a nice voice that it would be easy to get sick if she didn't sit well during the confinement period.
But she just grumbled when I didn't say anything, and she started to cry when I told her.
She didn't live a good life and made herself unhappy.
She didn't even want to say anything about her. There were many people who didn't have sons, and those who were tortured by their in-laws didn't live like her.
You can be happy secretly with a good old lady like me.
You still don't know what's good for you.
After she raises the second child during this confinement period, she won't care about him anymore.
Chapter 120 It's so bad
Not wanting to talk about her any more, Old Lady Liu changed the subject.
She could no longer hide the guilt in her heart.
Liu Qingqing glanced at her mother who was holding her hand and smiling with a guilty look on her face, and asked in confusion: "What's wrong?"
Old Lady Liu smiled awkwardly: "Is Song Jinglin doing well this time?"
"Very well."
Old Lady Liu patted her thigh habitually: "Hehe, that's good, that's good, mother's vision is not bad, Song Laoer has been outside since he was a child, and he has been educated by the army, so he must be right."
Liu Qingqing listened to her beating around the bush and smiled and stretched out her hand.
Old Lady Liu's heart trembled, and she covered her chest with her hands: "It's all out, you can't take it back."
Liu Qingqing peeked out and looked: "Mom, are you hiding it close to your body now?"
Old Lady Liu quickly put down her hand covering her chest: "No, what do you mean by hiding it close to your body?"
"I saw it all, you sewed it inside the cotton-padded jacket?"
Old Lady Liu's forehead wrinkled into a lump: "Didn't you say that sewing inside the trouser crotch is not allowed?"
Liu Qingqing couldn't help laughing, and slapped the old lady's thigh wildly: "Don't worry, I don't want it, it's all yours, just keep it."
"You damned brat, you just scare me." Old Lady Liu pushed away the hand that was patting her thigh, this girl is so bad.
As she spoke, she also laughed.
Among her children, the eldest daughter is the most like her. The other three are very stupid, especially the second child. She has taught him for so many days, but he still doesn't know how to do anything. He is so clumsy and slow.
Thinking of the second child, Mrs. Liu ran to the yard with small steps: "Don't hold the second child all the time. Just put him on the bed with his mother. Hurry up and wash the mustard seeds. If you don't light up the room, I will see what you will use at night."
After saying that, she rolled her eyes and went into the house.
He is really good at nothing.
"My second brother washes the urine mustard seeds?"
Mrs. Liu walked towards the house: "If not him, who will wash it? He is his own child. How can he expect me to serve him all the time?"
Besides, she taught the eldest child in the same way. The eldest child got the hang of it quickly. She didn't feel tired for the second half of the month.
They are all sons, but this one is much worse.
Liu Qingqing raised her thumb, this educational concept is good.
Old Lady Liu smiled and came to her side: "Old lady, when you give birth, do you need your mother? I tell you, Old Song is not half as good as me."
Liu Qingqing smiled and put her arm around her shoulder: "Of course, I'm afraid you will be tired."
"Not tired, how tired can it be to take care of a baby during the confinement period? Your mother has plenty of strength." Then you can live in the city permanently.
Liu Qingqing agreed, seeing that her mother's physical condition is much better than before.
Many people in the village died when they were fifty or sixty years old. They overdraw their bodies to work all year round, and they can't keep up with eating and drinking. Their life span is far from being as long as in the future.
However, there are also people who live a long life, which is also related to personal physical fitness.
She had ground up the second generation of upgraded fitness pills and mixed them into the sesame paste she bought from Lincheng.
She gave a box to her mother and told her to drink a little every day to blacken her hair.
Old Mrs. Liu loves beauty very much. When it comes to black hair, she never misses it every day.
Now it seems that there is some effect.
She is much more energetic.
Director Ge in Lincheng is very inefficient.
Liu Qingqing waited for a long time before she heard Director Li say that the deal was done.
However, the delivery was not her responsibility. She was only responsible for receiving the goods.
This was exactly what she wanted.
She didn't want to go to the painful delivery job.
She just wanted to be a quiet buyer and mix her own things in.
With her meager power, she tried her best to alleviate the situation of the people who could not buy food and drink due to the lack of supplies.
(*′'*) And make some money at the same time.